How We See Our World

I was 16 before I learned that not everyone walks around composing
music in their head most of the time. You know, how you experience the
world is how you assume everyone else experiences the world.

The thing is, we each wear a different set of blinders.
If my blinders limit my field of vision to events and experiences that
make me a victim then I can only see events and experiences that make
me a victim. Oh my gosh!

How can I become aware of my blinders and filters? I learn how my mind works and how my brain works so I can see how I create my blinders and filters.

What if I do not care how my mind or brain work? Well, I simply focus
on how I want my life to look. The bottomline is the "why" does not
matter. All that maters is how I live each moment. And how I live each
moment is my choice when I have awareness of how I can create my choice
consciously instead of automatically.

When I live on automatic and my life is not working as I want it to how
in the world can I expect anything to be different for me? Consider
that you and your child live on automatic.

What blinders does your child have? Is he a good boy? A no talent artist? Hyper? Very smart? What label does he have to live up to?